9 Things You Should Say to Your Child
What you say can change your relationship with your child forever! Pick the right words to build the right relationship! ❤️
1. IT’S OKAY TO CRY
Let them know that everyone cries sometime. You can cry when you are sad or when you are hurt. Crying is a natural response to pain, either physical or emotional. Everyone cries from time to time, it is a healthy release of emotion.
2. I’M LISTENING TO YOU
Listen to your children! We teach our children not to interrupt when someone is talking, but then we never listen to what they have to say. When your child is trying to tell you something, take interest in it. Show them that you care about what they have to tell you.
3. I’M PROUD OF YOU
When your children do something they are proud of, let them know that you are proud of them too! Your children need to know you are proud of them for their accomplishments, not matter how small. They look up to you and you need to give them encouragement.
4. YOU MADE A MISTAKE, IT’S OKAY
Help them learn from their mistakes. Tell them that no one is perfect. Everyone makes mistakes from time to time. Don’t make them feel like they have to be perfect. That puts too much pressure on them. Try to teach them to learn from their
mistakes.
5. I LOVE YOU
Tell your children you love them, often! “I Love You! No matter what, I will always love you.” A parent’s love is unconditional. You children will love you unconditionally also.
6. WHAT DO YOU THINK?
Ask your child’s opinion. Let them know that their opinion matters. This will also help you get some insight on how they feel about decisions that are being made. This doesn’t mean they are going to be the decision maker, it just means that you value their opinion.
7. I’M SORRY
Say you’re sorry when needed. Don’t be hesitant to tell your children you’re sorry. If for some reason you say or do something that you really shouldn’t have, tell your child, you are are sorry.
8. IT’S OKAY TO BE SCARED
Find out what scares your children. Let them know that it is ok to be scared sometimes. Everyone is afraid at one time or another. We usually fear the unknown and there are many things that children haven’t experienced yet.
9. YOU DID A GOOD JOB
Praise your children. No matter how small the task, let your children know when they have done a good job. Your children need your approval when they do something right. Brag on them when they deserve it! Confidence building is an important part of growing up.
Positive Things to Say to Your Child
You are helpful.
You were right.
I know you did your best.
I’m grateful for you.
You have great ideas.
I love being your mom.
I believe in you.
You are important.
You make me proud.
You are loved.
You don’t have to be perfect to be amazing.
I believe you.
You are worth it.
Don’t be afraid to be yourself.
It’s good to be curious.
We all make mistakes, it’s OK.
I understand you.
You can say no.
This family would not be the same without you.
We can try it your way.
I appreciate you.
I know you did your best.
I forgive you.
I am so glad you’re here.
That was really brave what you did.
I admire you.
It’s your decision.
If you really believe in something, it’s important.
Don’t give up.
I could never stop loving you.
You can try again tomorrow.
Don’t compare yourself to anyone else.
You are enough.
It’s OK to be scared.
Even if you make a mistake, you can fix it.
Being kind does not make you weak.
Your ideas are great.
You don’t have to do what everyone else is doing.
Anything is possible.
You can make a difference.
I love how you said that.
I’m listening.
You did that so well.
You make my heart full.
Not everyone will like you, and that is okay.
You have a choice.
That’s a great question.
I’m so excited to spend time with you.
That was a really good choice.
I trust you.
I hear you.
Your attitude can change any situation.
You are a great friend.
Never stop trying.
I’ll always love you.
